Monday 9 February 2015

50 WAYS TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE #5


I was going to start this post with just my average 'Happy Monday!' , but then i had to rephrase it...... this post will now begin with the happiest Monday of the year! ( I know its only February)


Today is such a Happy Monday for so many reasons:
I feel like I am finally taking bigger steps towards my goals
I feel satisfied for the first time in a long, long time
and lastly, I reached 100 GFC followers and of course 300 bloglovin followers!!!!

It feels like only last week I was thanking  you all for 20 followers and only yesterday when I was rejoicing for 60. do you know how exciting and fulfilling it is to see something that you created and have put so much of your time and care into , continuously grow everyday? I only have you guys to thank for that! it is pretty difficult to believe that people actually read my blog and so many of you take your precious time to write some of the most valued comments I have ever received. I guess all I can really say is ... thank you! I know as much as I say it , it will never be really be enough. 

This little blogging victory has lead me on to one of my favourite posts - yes , it is the 50 ways to change your life series! I feel like I haven't done one of these for ages. I really just wanted to cover the topic of comparing yourself to others.

We often compare ourselves to others: their achievements, their looks, their personalities , their popularity. Why do we do it? is it a dissatisfaction in ourselves or is it just an innate flaw? There are just too many ways in which we can compare ourselves to others, to be honest once we begin , it is pretty difficult to stop. In my opinion, although I am the most guilty of this, comparisons are just unfair and a waste of time. It causes you to focus on others rather than yourself instead of pursuing greater things in your life.

Obviously, it wouldn't be a 50 ways post if there were no quotes, so I gathered as many quotes as I could on this topic. I hope you love tem as much as I do!
 
 
                      
  
 
                        
                                                                                                                      
                                        
 
 
Thank you all once again for allowing my blog to reach the stage it is now! Let me know in the comments below what you think about comparing yourself to others.
 
Have the most wonderful week!

24 comments:

  1. I love that quote by Roosevelt! Well done on 300 followers! You are my literal goals haha..

    http://thelittlebluesailboat.blogspot.co.uk/

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  2. CONGRATULATIONS!!! thats such a huge accomplishment for a blog! thats awesome:)

    and dude....I needed this reminder today. comparing myself to others is something I have always struggled with. a had stopped for a while, but its been killing me once again. so thank you for those sweet words.

    God bless you<3 congrats again on the 100 followers!

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    1. thanks so so much faith! I am just so happy to see my blog reach this amount of readers! I am glad that you liked this post I really need to take on my own advice:) thanks again :)

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  3. 100 followers congratulations
    you're like a celebrity now aren't you :)

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    1. Neal, just call me beyonce. Thanks a million especially for all your comments that you have left since the start :)

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    2. so now you are When Beyonce Writes? XD XD

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    3. you don't even know how hard I laughed at this

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  4. Comparison really is the thief if joy. I suffered with this issue majorly last year. I would scroll through my social media, wondering why everyone's lives were looking amazing without realising these were their highlight moments which was why they were posting. I would look at girls at school and a lot of the time wonder why I couldn't live their life. I would forget anything good about myself and simply envy every single thing I didn't have, and every person I wasn't.

    But now I love myself. And that isn't a bad or self centred thing at all.

    -M
    The Life of Little Me

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    1. M, this is exactly me word for word, I am glad someone else has experienced the same things as me. it is not selfish at all you deserve to love yourself :) thanks for reading xx

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  5. Congratulations on your achievement, may you have many more to come. :) Thank you for sharing these quotes, I especially love the last one by Maya Angelou. We shouldn't compare our start line to someone else's finish line, because everyone has different starting points in the beginning. :) Have a lovely day. :)

    Dian
    The Happy Candle

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    1. Thanks a lot , for reading and your comments :) I love that one too! have a lovely day too!

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  6. Congratulations! (did I spell that right. I am such a horrible speller) 100 and 300. Wow. That's awesome. I have just discovered your blog and it is amazing! You are truly fantastic and a wonderful writer.

    ~Noor
    a little bit of sunshine
    Let's see if that HTML finally worked

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    1. Thanks so much noor! You definitely spelt it right! I am so grateful for your comments! Thanks for reading :)

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  7. hello, thx for visit:)
    I followed You #102

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  8. i just discovered your blog its so inspiring , all posts are so helpful for budding bloggers

    i have started following your blog on both blog lovin and gfc

    please do visit my blog and tell me what you think about it

    http://beautyanddewdrop.blogspot.com

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    1. Wow! Thanks farya! And thanks for joining us here at when she writes. I will be sure to check your site out :)

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  9. Congratulations! It’s so amazing! You deserve all of those subscribers! Your blog is well written, inspiring and very nice looking;)
    It’s so true that comparing yourself to others is a joy stealer! I just need to remember that every time I start comparing!

    ~Ali

    http://maidenofthemorning.blogspot.com/

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    1. Oh Ali this is such a wonderful comment! It makes my heart sing! thanks so muchx
      I am glad you can relate to the quotes. Please stay in touch :)

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    1. I am so filled with joy that you think so! Thanks so much for reading :)

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  11. Congrats on your achievement and for the great post.
    Kisses

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  12. Nice advices) Follow you)

    springinsoul.blogspot.ru

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